The importance of ＂wishing＂ has been seriously underestimated.
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Half a year later, do you still remember the wish you made at the beginning of the year?
I believe you have experienced many stories in the past six months. At the beginning of the year, we set out towards our big and small wishes. Maybe now, because of some changes, our wishes are not the same as we thought:
With the arrival of the graduation season, the first batch of 00 officially entered the workplace. These 10.76 million students were still sitting in the classroom at the beginning of the year, but now they are sitting in the cubicle in white shirts. Because of the change of identity, their wishes have changed accordingly.
When we embark on a new journey, we will have a new plan more or less. /"We can’t be beasts"
Some people made travel plans early at the beginning of the year, and now they are eager to change the track, and they want to be a camper in the second half of the year; Naturally, in this ever-changing world, some people still want to stick to their inner wishes and continue to move forward firmly on the road to achieving these small goals: losing weight, taking exams and getting rid of singles.
Perhaps, we want to change our current goals because we have entered a new stage of life; Perhaps, because of changes in the outside world, we have produced new ideas; Or perhaps, because of their inner love, some people are still sticking to that precious sincerity.
So, what about you? Will you revise the wishes you made at the beginning of the year?
If there is a better choice, what’s wrong with changing your wishes?
There is a saying, "Plans can’t keep up with changes".
Facing the changes of the outside world, we can adjust our plans in time, make more suitable choices and add some new colors to our lives.
Junior @ Liu Yu
Wish at the beginning of the year: go ashore for postgraduate study and plate yourself with gold.
Mid-year wish: active practice and practical work.
After going through the baptism of postgraduate entrance examination and school recruitment, Liu Yu found his love.
At the beginning of the year, Liu Yu made a wish to continue her studies. In order to "by going up one flight of stairs" academically, he became a member of the postgraduate entrance examination army.
For most people, postgraduate entrance examination may be the best way out, but not everyone is suitable. /vision china
But in less than half a year, he found that the life of studying hard in the study room was not suitable for him.
"I began to think, am I really interested in continuing my studies?" Liu Yu said that the postgraduate entrance examination is an important option for him in the future, but it is by no means a "slow plan" to hide in the ivory tower.
After making up his mind, he began to haunt the school recruitment meetings in the university town. But surprisingly, he didn’t choose the school recruitment position in the end, but found a job in the later stage of film and television through his own efforts, which has always been his interest.
Although the salary of the newcomer is not high, he values the significance of this job more.
"I am still very happy. This is just a small starting point. The most important thing is to learn something." Liu yuyu said easily that although he changed his original plan, this "unintentional" experience made him clear his life and found a direction that was more suitable for him.
It’s cool to know yourself again in this hurried era.
Newlyweds @Jonathan and @Suki
Wish at the beginning of the year: hold a grand wedding.
Mid-year wish: continue the day of "having a cat and a lover"
Jonathan and Suki found that if two people can enjoy their lives, the sense of ceremony is less important.
"At the beginning of the year, we were considering the form of the wedding, whether it was Chinese or western. Suki’s mother has also been picking a venue for her daughter. " Jonathan said that at first, they were determined to have an unforgettable wedding, but as time went by, the young couple quickly entered the sweet mode of wedding.
Newlyweds @Jonathan and @Suki.
"Other things may be more important than the sense of ceremony." For them, it is good enough to enjoy the present. At present, the busy young couple has no reason to interrupt the pace of life at all, and they have to go to great pains for a wedding ceremony that "tells the world".
The most important thing is that whether they hold a wedding or not, they are already inseparable families.
"For us, the world has become smaller." Jonathan said that they prefer to focus on each other. "If I can make a new wish, I hope to continue to live with cats and lovers. It would be nice to get together with friends once in a while, open a bottle of wine, or have a cup of coffee on the balcony. "
It is not difficult to see from the stories of Liu Yu, Jonathan and Suki that in the face of changes, we will naturally redefine and plan our lives according to our current state.
Then, when we have a better choice, we just need to adjust our direction and continue to love life, and then we can go to the next mountain and sea.
It’s cool to stick to your wishes.
If we say, people take "wishes at the beginning of the year" as a ceremony to welcome the New Year. Then, this "halftime moment" is a good time to adjust your wishes at the right time.
These seemingly small wishes can bring a sense of faith to life, which is especially valuable at present. Therefore, we take this opportunity to resume our expectations at the beginning of the year and face the future with a brand-new attitude.
Of course, in the face of ever-changing times, there are always people who keep their faith and walk forward with their wishes.
Single Liren Comedy @ Lv Dong
Wish at the beginning of the year: work and rest regularly and make more good works.
Mid-year wish: Continue to fulfill the wish at the beginning of the year.
In the view of Lv Dong, the product manager of "Shan Liren", the wish is very important, and the process of working hard for it is more important.
Lv Dong’s wish is simple.
Like many contemporary young people who stay up late in revenge, he is trying to adjust his work and rest and establish a healthier pace of life.
Lv Dong, product manager of "Shan Liren".
Lv Dong said in an interview that he used to habitually "rationalize" staying up late because he felt that he was working on creating cultural content.
But he gradually found that if you want to make good things, you still have to sort out the "production line", "regular production, more sustainable, and the projects you do will be more secure and solid."
Lv Dong believes that "a wish is an expectation", but we should not be misled by it.
"Wishing" is just a phased starting point of life marathon, which can help us find a direction worth running forward, but the journey is still long, and sustained and effective action is more important.
Now, Lv Dong is getting closer and closer to this wish, and his work and rest are gradually becoming regular, but he feels that he can do better and there is no need to modify his wish.
He will stick to his wishes and make himself do better.
Desire is changing, love is constant.
Whether we insist on our initial intention or adjust our direction, we can find that the very existence of desire reflects people’s enthusiasm and direction for life.
The process in which we struggle to modify our wishes is to clarify the direction of our lives again.
In the present, wishes hide our hopes for the future. In this process, we will get a clearer understanding of a better life from the details that we didn’t pay attention to in the past, and find a reason to move forward more firmly.
All our actions are born of those small wishes. Their existence not only represents our yearning for a better life, but also shows us the direction of action.
Change a wish, change a mood, change a way of life, and life will return a different love to you.
You are welcome to share your "mid-year wish" in the comments section.
The power of desire is the power of our life.
Original title: "The importance of" wishing "is seriously underestimated"